A physically healthy 29-year-old explained why she chose to be euthanized.
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Euthanasia is the practice of intentionally ending life to eliminate pain and suffering, with different countries having differing laws on the matter.
The topic has always been a divisive issue.
A man dubbed Dr. Death went viral after revealing his ‘s**cide capsules‘ that allow for a quick and painless death for those who want it.
News of a physically healthy woman voluntarily being euthanized also made headlines.
Zoraya ter Beek lived in a small village in the Netherlands, close to the German border.
She was in perfect physical health – but still opted to end her life in May 2024.
News of this young woman’s decision sparked a lot of discussion online.
One person wrote: “I am a supporter of the right to die and death with dignity IF the person is terminally ill and is suffering. I always thought that Sweden and the Netherlands were ahead of their time when these laws were created.”
Another added: “This is heartbreaking, but her body, her choice, it’s as simple as that. I can understand her choice. I’m lucky that I found medication which at least takes the edge off.”
A third agreed: “I give her SO much credit. A person KNOWS when they have had enough. She is done. Pure and simple. I wish her a safe and smooth transition. This woman is a hero.”
However, a fourth opposes ter Beek’s controversial decision, penning: “You are a beautiful young woman and can do whatever you want, but s**cide is not the way to go. You can find other options, don’t waste your life that others would love to have.”
Euthanasia in the Netherlands is regulated by the Termination of Life on Request and Assisted S**cide (Review Procedures) Act, which was passed in 2001 and took effect in 2002, as per Alliance VITA.
“In 2022, there were 8,720 reported cases of euthanasia in the Netherlands. This is an increase of around 1,000 of such cases compared to the previous year and the highest in the recorded time period,” per Statista.
In 2023, there were 9,068 reported cases of euthanasia in the Netherlands — the highest number on record.
The Government of the Netherlands website adds: “Euthanasia and assisted s**cide are legal only if the criteria laid down in the Dutch Termination of Life on Request and Assisted S**cide (Review Procedures) Act are fully observed. Only then is the physician immune from criminal prosecution.
“Requests for euthanasia often come from patients experiencing unbearable suffering with no prospect of improvement. Their request must be made earnestly and with full conviction. They see euthanasia as the only escape from the situation.
“However, patients have no absolute right to euthanasia and doctors no absolute duty to perform it.”
Stef Groenewoud, a healthcare ethicist at Theological University Kampen, told The Free Press: “I’m seeing euthanasia as some sort of acceptable option brought to the table by physicians, by psychiatrists, when previously it was the ultimate last resort.
“I see the phenomenon, especially in people with psychiatric diseases, and especially young people with psychiatric disorders, where the healthcare professional seems to give up on them more easily than before.”
Zoraya ter Beek had autism, depression, anxiety, trauma and borderline personality disorder (BPD). She claimed life with these conditions has become unbearable, and she no longer wished to live.
The 29-year-old claimed to The Free Press that her psychiatrist told her: “There’s nothing more we can do for you. It’s never gonna get any better.”
“I was always very clear that if it doesn’t get better, I can’t do this anymore,” ter Beek added.
The 29-year-old said before her death, she wanted to be euthanized on her sofa and cremated afterward so her boyfriend wouldn’t have to clean her grave.
“The doctor really takes her time. It is not that they walk in and say, ‘Lay down, please!’. Most of the time it is first a cup of coffee to settle the nerves and create a soft atmosphere,” ter Beek said.
“Then she asks if I am ready. I will take my place on the couch. She will once again ask if I am sure, and she will start up the procedure and wish me a good journey. Or, in my case, a nice nap, because I hate it if people say, ‘Safe journey’. I’m not going anywhere.”
She added: “I’m a little afraid of dying because it’s the ultimate unknown. We don’t really know what’s next ≠ or is there nothing? That’s the scary part.
“I don’t see it as my soul leaving, but more as myself being freed from life.”
